Category: Polite Society

A Primer on Politeness, From the ‘Complete Handbook for the Use of the Lady in Polite Society’

In preparing a book of etiquette for ladies, I would lay down as the first rule, “Do unto others as you would others should do to you.” You can never be rude if you bear the rule always in mind, for what lady likes to be treated rudely? True Christian politeness will always be the…


How to Earn Respect at Work

The need for good manners extends into the workplace and at all work-related events. Even those working remotely need to be aware of how they interact with coworkers via phone calls, texts, emails, and online meetings. Respect the Work Environment During work hours, you’re expected to be on time, working efficiently and as hard as…


Curtain Time! A Guide to Enjoying Your Opera Experience to the Fullest

Attending a live performance of the opera is a feast for all the senses, as you take in the sights and sounds of the performers, the orchestra, and the other guests around you. What to Expect The opera is an exciting, interactive experience during which the guests and performers can see and hear each other….


How to Be the Perfect Guest

When you’re so fortunate as to receive an invitation to spend time in someone’s home, whether it’s just for dinner or for a weekend, proper behavior will ensure that you’re welcome back anytime. Start Off on the Right Foot The moment you’re invited to someone’s home for any reason, after you thank them, ask, “What…


How to Be a Perfect Host or Hostess

Parties are supposed to be fun, but hosting any type of gathering can be stressful. To make sure you enjoy the party, too, your Polite Society guide has a few pointers to make it easy. Start Early so You Can Enjoy the Party As the host or hostess, it’s OK for you to enjoy the…


Put It in Writing: The Art of the Thank You Note

A proper thank you note showing appreciation for a holiday or birthday gift or a considerate action is a core concept of good manners. As a pleasant bonus, it can also result in unexpected benefits for the sender. Why Send a Thank You As children, we learned at an early age to write thank you…


Formal Dining: A Survival Guide

Formal dinners can be a lot of fun, but if you’ve never attended one, it can be a bit daunting to know how to behave and what to wear. No need to worry; we’ll make sure you have a great time. Watch Your Host or Hostess If the dinner isn’t formal, men should wear a…