Category: Mindset

Breathing Techniques to Help Calm Your Nerves

Some people simply can’t get into meditation and have no desire to learn. If you can’t fully shut your brain down to meditate or you get bored trying to practice mindfulness, you’re not alone. But that doesn’t mean that you can’t calm anxieties or combat your stress by slowing down. There’s a reason why people…


Anxiety Effectively Treated with Exercise

A new study from the University of Gothenburg in Sweden has found that both moderate and strenuous exercise may alleviate anxiety symptoms. Researchers believe that even when the disorder is chronic, exercise can play an essential role in helping to reduce the symptoms of anxiety. Published in the Journal of Affective Disorders, the study was…


In Defense of Leisure

One way to categorize time is into two buckets: work and leisure. When we’re doing an activity that requires effort and achieves a clear purpose, then we’re doing work. Pretty much everything else is leisure. I think the idea of leisure has fallen on hard times, and I’d like to make a brief defense in the words that…


Lead Others With a Trust Mindset

It seems like everywhere we look, trust is breaking down. In the years I spent in trust-depleted villages as a Green Beret, this was something we had to contend with regularly as we worked to overcome trust gaps between tribes. Since I retired and started working with business leaders, I am seeing those same indicators…


How Non-Stop Hustle and Grind Is Bad for Your Mind

By Meiyoko Taylor No successful entrepreneur is a stranger to hard work, but the resulting hustle-and-grind mindset can cause more harm than good. The problem lies when this pursuit begins to throw everything off-balance and you begin to neglect other important areas of your life. Your Physical Health   Eating fast food is common for people who are always working…


Your Plan for Better Aging

Everyone knows someone who must be lying about their age. After all, how can they look like that and have all that energy if they were as old as you? After about 35 or 40, I’d say “the real you” starts to show, and it will typically go one way or the other. Some will…


The Profound Health Benefits of Being Grateful

Gratitude is a simple practice that can have profound effects on your health and well-being. Positive effects linked to gratitude include social, psychological, and physical benefits, which increase the more you make gratitude a regular part of your daily routine. “The limits to gratitude’s health benefits are really in how much you pay attention to…


Relaxing Our Threat Detector

I’ve been working with a large number of people who are very often exhausted, not just from sleep problems but from their daily activities. A lot of us are drained by being around other people, doing video meetings, going out in public, etc., so we start to avoid those activities to preserve our energy. Setting…


Permission to Feel

This past weekend, I witnessed an event that was both utterly simple and utterly profound, an interaction that beautifully demonstrates what we really need to feel OK. I was sitting at an outdoor café, when what appeared to be a family of three: a mom, dad, and their 9-ish-year-old daughter (who was carrying a wrapped…


Love Only Lasts With a Growth Mindset

It won’t be a surprise to most of us that up to 50 percent of marriages in the United States fail. In his book “The All or Nothing Marriage,” psychology professor Eli Finkel describes the increasing expectations that strain marriages: “In contrast to our predecessors, who looked to their marriage to help them survive, we look to…