Business. [1.] FORM GOOD HABITS. It is important for the young man learning business, or just getting a start in business, to form correct habits, and especially of forming the habit of being polite to all with whom he has business relations, showing the same courteous treatment to men or women, poorly or plainly dressed,…
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A Gentleman’s Rules for Cultivating Moral Values in the Home—From an 1880s Manual on Manners
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How to Be a Gentleman: A Politeness Handbook From 1875 Explains What ‘True Courtesy’ Really Is All About
TRUE COURTESY. POLITENESS is the art of pleasing. It is to the deportment what the finer touches of the pencil are to the picture, or what harmony is to music. In the formation of character, it is indispensably requisite. “We are all,” says Locke, “a kind of chameleons, that take a tincture from the objects…
Vintage Advice for Gentleman: Etiquette for the Date, Hanging With the Boys, or Just Chillin’ Alone
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50 (More) Tips for Cultivating Gentlemanly Manners From an Etiquette Handbook From the 1800s
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How to Make a Party Pleasant: Party Etiquette for the Gentleman From an 1800s Handbook on Manners
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Rules for Church From a Vintage Gentleman’s Guidebook on Manners From the 1800s
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‘Manly Exercise’ Etiquette: A Vintage Gentleman’s Manual Instructs on Boxing, Sports, Physical Fitness
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