Category: Everyday Cheapskate

Good Manners, Good Sense, and Wedding Gifts

You know it’s wedding season when the invitations pile up in your mailbox faster than you can return the RSVPs. Who doesn’t love a wedding? OK, I see those hands, but you are clearly in the minority. The challenge is buying gifts for your betrothed friends and relatives—or their kids—that they’ll appreciate but that won’t…


A Credit Card Should Build Credit, Not Create Debt

Dear Mary: My 30-year-old son-in-law needs to get a credit card approved so he can buy tires for his truck. Every time he applies for a card, he gets denied. He has no credit and needs to begin building credit. He did try Orchard Bank, but their cards have an annual fee. Can you suggest…


Give Your Kids Flying Lessons

Kids of elementary school age are becoming aware of the real world around them. They are eager to learn and still believe everything adults tell them. And they want their own money. For all of those reasons, I suggest that now is the perfect time to start a simple allowance system. This will create wonderful…


The 7-Day All-Cash Challenge

This morning while waiting for my car to fill up, I put the time to good use. I read all the hazard warnings. I couldn’t help but think how much better off we might be if there were similar warning signs posted in stores, restaurants, and malls warning of the hazards of plastic. ATM, debit,…


The Inside Buzz on Batteries

Little things mean a lot—like the two words “batteries included.” Just knowing they’re in there somewhere means less hassle and one less thing to buy. But face it. The initial powering-up of a battery-operated device is a minor concern. It’s the cost of keeping it going for years to come that should be considered. The…


The Most Overlooked Type of Insurance

Insurance is a funny thing. You learn all you can, shop diligently, scrape together the money to pay for it, and then hope you’ll never have to use it. In addition to health and automobile coverage, most people insure their lives so that in the event of their death, those who depend on their income…


The Agony and Ecstasy of Getting Out of Debt

Dear Mary: We’ve just received notice that the rent on our three-bedroom house is going up from $950 to $1,200 a month. We were struggling before, so we really can’t afford the increase. We have looked at an apartment community, where our rent would be around $850 a month. I found another home that could…


Overspent and Overloaded? You Need Margin

Bill Smith sits down to his most dreaded chore—paying bills. Every month, it’s the same story: Pay the most urgent, and leave the rest. There’s never enough money, no matter how hard he works. Jane Miller flies into the school office frazzled and 30 minutes late because she was 20 minutes late getting out of…


Debit Cards Are the Motorcycles of Personal Finance

For decades, I’ve pleaded with my readers not to use debit cards because they are not safe. And for years, I warned my sons about the dangers of riding motorcycles because they are not safe. Has anyone listened and taken heed? Debit cards are more popular than ever. And on the subject of motorcycles in…


Without Trust, You Have Nothing—in Money and in Life

Dear Mary: I have been dating a woman for about two years. Getting to know her, I have learned that she has significant financial problems that she has not told me about. I have found out by doing a little research on my own (public records, etc.). This is a serious relationship. We are both…